So many girls in this 21 century find it a usual practice dating and marrying men who are already married and are probably raising children of a similar age as them.
But why do the ladies date married men despite having legible bachelors willing to take them on?
Different girls give their views on why they would choose married men over single ones.
Care
Joy Namatovu, notes that married men are very caring, something the single men haven’t mastered. Single men think a woman has nowhere to go and they treat them like objects.
Married men, however, know the value of women because they see the difference between the one they have home and the one they have just met.
Money
Betty says married men have worked and have the money. They are less dramatic when it comes to giving money because they have it. The single ones will take you through lectures on how you have to think about the future.
“We all love an easy life and if you date a young and single man, then you to toil for more than twenty years looking for money and when it comes, he will look for a young chap to make him happy. So why the hustle,” she says.
They make firm decisions
Namatovu notes that the married men have ever committed once so they won’t be afraid to do it all over again.
If he wants to marry you, he will do it without hesitation contrary to the single men who fear commitment and spend most of their time thinking whether they should get serious or not.
They know what they want
Martina, (not real name) 26 married to a 57 year old white man, notes thus, “apart from a few cowards, most married men will tell you they have a family, and will therefore tell you where you stand in their lives.
Whether they want to marry you or not, they will respect you as a woman and provide for you to your satisfaction.”
Time
“When the time is against you, then you will marry a married man that is if he is the only one around and looking serious.
When a woman is in her mid-thirties, they have no choice but to go with whoever comes as time is running out. Why wait for a single man who may never come? So if it’s a married man in line, she will not hesitate,” Namatovu explains.
Experience
Martina adds, “We all know the saying about old brooms, the married men will give you the desired peace of mind. They are advisers, teachers and will understand you more than any one which is not the case for those who have not been married before.”
Religion
For some of these situations, it’s because of religion. Muslim women will marry a married man because their religion allows it so there is no offence.
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